Any body know ? " What Self-Esteem is "

Anyway we share here, Self-esteem is collection of beliefs and feelings that we have about ourselves, our self-perceptions.
How we describe ourselves, it influences our motivations, attitudes, and behaviors and than it affects our emotional balancing.
Patterns of self-esteem it begins very early in our life. I will give one example, a toddler who will reach a milestone experiences a sense of accomplishment that bolsters self-esteem. Learning for rolling over after many dozens of unsuccessful attempts teaches a baby a "can-do" behavior.

The basic concept of success is following persistence begins very early. As kids try, fail, try again, fail again, more and more and then finally they will succeed, they will develop ideas about their own abilities.
At same time, they are making a self concept based on interactions with other persons. It is why parental involvement is basic to helping or encourage kids form accurate, healthy of self perceptions.

In another word Self-esteem also may be described as feelings of ability combined with feelings of being loved.
Kids who is happy with an achievement but do not feel loved might eventually experience low self-esteem. For example kids who feel loved but is hesitant about their own abilities may also end up with low self-esteem. Healthy self-esteem comes while the right balance is reached correctly.

How to Make your kids become Smart

These are useful tips and information in making your kids become smart :  

1. Try to interact more with your kid, play and communicate with him/her nicely, and make your kids feel loved

The expert observed, the babies who were not cuddled, played with and loved have stunted brain growth.  They also observed that babies who were not held and didn't receive attention failed to grow, became depressed, and eventually died.
On the other sources, many studies have shown that loving, hugging, interacting and playing with your child has a strong effect on developing his intelligence and make your kid more smart.
The loving connection formed between you and your kid and your one-on-one interaction with him provide the foundation for his higher thinking and learning skills. 

2.  Try to talk with your kid deeply and carefully

It will develops your child’s good language skills.  Also, try to listen to your child when she/he’s talking.  This can reinforces his effort to communicate and develops his facility for language.

3.  Try to read books or any good story for your kid

Doing reading to him/her even if he/she does not understand the words what you say.  It gives him/her a head start in developing communication and language skills.  Kids who are read to when young are more likely to develop a lifelong interest in reading, doing well in school or college, and succeed in their future life.  Reading books is one of the most important activities that make kids smart.

4.  Just let your kid play so they will learn and grow nicely

When your kid plays, he/she is making the foundation for his emotional skills, social, physical and intellectual. When he/she plays with another kid, he/she learns to impressions, combine ideas and feelings with other kids’ experiences and opinions. 

5.  Try to motivate and encourage your kid for doing exercise

Physical exercise does not only cause your kid strong, but it will also makes your kid more smart!  Exercise increases the flow of blood to the brain and builds new brain cells.  Exercise is good for adults' mental sharpness, but it has a more long-lasting effect on your kid’s still developing brain.

6.   Music and song is a part of your kid’s life

Studies have explained that listening to music can boost memory, learning, motivation and attention.  It can also lower or avoid stress that is destructive to your kid’s brain.  Learning to play a musical instrument has an effect on the brain’s proportional thinking and spatial temporal reasoning that lay the foundation for abstract math.

7.  One of better education is just let your kid see you are doing smart things

It is a correct that kids always learn by modeling adult’s behavior.  If he/she sees you engaged in reading books, writing, making music, or doing creative things, he will imitate you and following what you are doing, and in the process make himself smart.
Try to become good and proper model for your kids.

8.  Don't let your kids watch TV or make limitation is better

It is better way if your child should not be watching TV before two year age.  Letting your kid watch too much TV takes him/her away from doing activities that are more important to his/her developing brain, like playing, socializing with people and reading story books.

9.  Give your kid smart computer games so they will be developed fast

Friendly computer games guide your kid about letters, math, music, phonics and many other things.  It also develops his hand-eye coordination and prepares him/her for future’s technology.  Most importantly, he/she learns these while he/she plays.
Having fun and learning at same time is the best method for your kid to learn and study.

10.  Feed your kid with right nutrition food

Give the correct food to your kid is important to making him/her smart.  Giving your baby the perfect nutrition should be started since you are pregnant.  For a grow kid, a rich protein (example : egg, fish, meat, soya bean) will improves his thinking, alertness, and attention.  Carbohydrates also will give his/her brain the fuel which is used in thinking(brain). 
The best ones are those that is coming from whole grain and fruits.  Processed carbohydrates and sugar have bad effects on attention span, focusing his/her capability and activity level. 
Vitamins and minerals are also really important for kids so it is necessary to.

Many advantages become a smart kid

There are so many advantages become a smart kids.
A smart kids will do well in school, they will get scholarships, and end up ahead in many options in a competitive world life.  A smart kids will make you proud as a parent.
No body will knows, maybe your kid will be a succeed in entrepreneur or help solve some serious problems in the country or maybe more in the world. 

Even we learn from books or best articles, absolutely there is no substitute for real parental experience. 
Of course, the following advice in this blog that I will share does not guarantee that your kid will get a scholarship or become a genius. That is a lot depends on his genetic make-up and inborn temperament. But anyway we should realize that genes are not destiny.

They are likely raw material that could be molded by us. If you will make use the materials from here, you are really helping to decide how these genes are expressed. You are increasing the kids chances to be the best of what he (she) can be succeed intellectually.